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Failure is success if we learn from it.—Malcolm Forbes

Failure, when managed appropriately by faculty, can be a catalyst for the growth, development, and improved performance of the adult learner. In Letting Students Fail so They Can Succeed, author Jim Hadley defines the term "tough love," researches some issues in practicing tough love in the classroom, and makes several suggestions to assist faculty as they encourage their students to take risks and learn important lessons from failure. Failure within the classroom environment can be turned into an opportunity for growth and performance improvement, if faculty are willing to set high expectations and foster learning environments that are growth-oriented and nonjudgmental.

We thank Jim Hadley from Hamilton College for these practical tips on practicing tough love in the college classroom.

Have personal and emotional toughness

Allowing students to feel the full cognitive and affective experience of failure is necessary if they are to grow and develop skills to successfully handle similar tasks in the future.

Allow students to experience frustration

Although it is often uncomfortable for faculty to remain silent during a failed student performance, doing so provides the student with the full affective and social experience.

Avoid enabling behavior

Faculty must recognize the difference between coaching behaviors that allow for growth and enabling behaviors that produce dependency.

Use peer interaction

If classmates are willing to discuss their own sub-standard performances with each other, they may become more resilient and will engage in similar tasks more readily. Faculty can help facilitate this process by planning challenging cooperative activities during which group interaction can help mitigate the consequences of failure. If tough love is shared proportionally in a group activity, individuals will perform to a higher standard due to the synergistic effect of the group.

Do not allow students to quit

If faculty express a strong belief in a student’s ability to succeed, if they encourage students to take risks, experience failure, and develop successful learning strategies, it will enhance students’ commitment to try again.

Share personal experience of failure

Faculty can share and reflect on their own academic failures and poor performance with their students. This model for growth encourages students to persevere.

Let students experience failure in small steps

Setting high expectations and allowing students to fail in incremental steps will actually build trust and commitment between the faculty member and his or her students. Small failures are more easily coached and will allow for immediate feedback on specific areas of performance.

Do not question your performance as an instructor when students fail

Faculty must recognize that it is not necessarily a reflection on their ability to teach effectively when they allow students to fail in their first attempt at a new academic performance. If expectations are set at the appropriate level for growth, the majority of students will experience short-term failure throughout the learning process.

Provide feedback

Continuous and immediate feedback can also assist faculty in instituting a tough-love strategy for student performance. Peer review can also be used to generate encouragement and commitment to difficult tasks. Peer feedback is often less threatening than faculty feedback; it motivates students to take necessary risks and to try new methods.

 

 

 

 

 

Success is never final.

Failure is never fatal.

Courage is what counts.

Sir Winston Churchill